Hello to my beautiful readers! It’s been a while, and I trust you’ve all been good!!! 😊
So here on todays post, I’m gonna start with this question;
Who do you adore and love most in this universe?
Well, when many people’s answer would be referring to their spouses, parents, or siblings, etc… I would truly expect your answer to be “You”
Yes, you heard right!
As for me, I love and adore ‘me’ the most. – I learnt that, and it’s been beautiful, healthy, and peaceful.
They say a life of sacrifice is noble. But it’s not always true, because you sacrifice so many things, that you lose yourself. So many people lose themselves while loving others (spouse, siblings, parents, friends, etc…).
Yes people around you deserved to be love. But ‘You’ are not less deserving of the love you give out. – Understand that!
The most important thing at any moment is ‘You’. Don’t forget that you’re the first and most important person at any moment.
Some might perceive your act of self love as being selfish or self centered, but the truth is, that’s your way into a healthy and happy life
If you can’t love and treat yourself right, how would you truly care for others?
If you can’t even learn how to pamper yourself, how do you expect others to pamper & treat you better?
My point is, so many times you care for people and you totally neglect yourself, thereby unintentionally sending a message across; that you are just okay the way you are, and less deserving of the love you pour out to them.
Love them as a sibling, parent, best friends, lovers, but Love Yourself More. – Man or woman, you deserve to pamper and love yourself.
Because the reality is; when you’re no longer there/existing, as a result of your self-neglect or bad health…, your family and friends will still be OKAY. – this is the world we live in.
So, Love them always, but it has to be You Loving yourself first. You are worthy of love too.
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OJSPRIDE 
We only ever give out the love that we are, and this journey will test that, teach that, so eventually we will see that love…and give from that place. It all comes together to test and poke us so that we can see. Like experiencing sadness so that we can truly appreciate happiness when it comes along, and on through those many emotions that we are from those many experiences. A great post kind lady, may that love be seen within us all 😀❤️🙏
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Yes, I agree with you… one can only give love from a place of love. 🤝
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And thankfully we slowly give from a more loving place in experiencing it all, realizing that it was only our fears that blocked it. But those fears have a great purpose, they show us ‘us’ so that we can learn and in understanding them, let them go. Everything we truly understand we let go of, comfortable in that knowledge. Fear is that unknown…understand them and we are truly free, releasing our shields, dropping our masks to the world, and finally ‘know’ what unconditional love is in that freedom. Enjoy the journey kind lady, in the end the gift is so profoundly beautiful to be beyond words…and very glad of each and every step we have taken to reach that place within us 😀❤️🙏
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